Monday, July 30, 2007

Rights of Parents - Respond by August 8

Being kind, obedient and respectful to parents is extremely important in Islam. Explain giving references of ayaat from Surat Luqman and ahadeeth discussed in class.

10 comments:

. said...

Being kind and obedient is very important in Islam. In ayah number fourteen,it tells us about our mom caring us in her stomach in weakness and hardship, so we should thank her. All of our moms carried us in their stomachs for nine months and went through pain and weakness, so you should thank her. Also a mother breasts feeds her baby for at least two years. Our parent are one of the most important people. Our dad works hard to get us money for food, clothes, and things we like. When we were young,are parent used to feed us and take care of us when we were sick. So we should thank them for what they did for us. When they tell us to help them around the house, we should listen to them. Our parents love us very much and we should also love them very much.

Anonymous said...

The headeeth says A man went to rasoolallah (S.A.W) and said that I carried my old mother to Makkah from Medina and she did Haji on my back. How much did I pay for her raising me as a child. Muhmmand (S.A.W.) said" You payed back 1 diaper change. The Surah Luqman says that the mother have to bear the child six months and will have to breast feed their children for 2 years

Anonymous said...

You should never be rude to your parents.disobeying your parents will cause a door to jannah to close.In the quran it says "your mother gave hardship and weakness upon you."Another good thing about her is that she has been weaning you for 2 years.Thats how good a mom can be. But it says in luckman,
"if they tell you to do a sin dont listen to them."that time dont listen to them

Sister Ghazala said...

Yaseen, you did not mention any ayaah from Surat Luqman.

Abdulrahman Tolba said...

You should never disobey your wonderful parents.When You were little they raised you and got tired.Now you have to raise them since their really old.The Prophet Muhammad (PBOH) Said that you parents are the door to jannah that maens if you don't listen to them you cannot go to jannah.But if you do listen You will go.The only time you shouln't listen to them is when they ask you to do something Haram.In ayah number fourteen it said that for the first year or two years she's the one that took care of you from when you were alive.You shouldn't Listen to your mom more just because its in hadith.You should listen to her and your Father.He is the one the gains the money and helps you live.The parents Should Not be repled when they ask for somthing halal.In the quran it said"Wala takol lahoma offa"That maens don't say off.Our parents love us very much and we should also love them the way they love us.Disobeying your parents is the worst sin ever because it is Haram.So if your being silly by doing fart noises for example and your parents said stop you have to.If you are rude to them you will get a punch-ment in the earth and year after unless you get sombody religous to throw you in some fire or your parents forgive you for what you did.Luqman said that Disobeying your parents for no reason is causing shirk which is bad and hard to erase.If you disobey your parents on the day of judgement you will try to cross but you wont and will swet so much that you fall in the hot boiling hellfire!You will be doomed and all the good deeds you got get erased fast.The first thing allah will ask you is "Did you Listen to your parents?" And we will inshalah reply,"Yes!We listend to are parents for what they have raised me when i was young.

ABDULRAHMAN TOLBA!

Mariam Tolba said...

Being nice and listening to our mothers and fathers is a command/must from Allah.In Surah Lukman Ayyahs 14-15 talk about our parents.In ayyah #14,our mothers held us in their tummys for about 9 months(it veries).In ayyah #15 means if they tried to pull you away from Allah's Islam and command,don't listen to them BUT try to make a realtionship with them and still treat them nicely.There are also many,many dua's on our parents like a man once took his mom on his back and went around the Kaba' and the Safa and Marwa and then told the Rusoul what he had done and if it equals how his mother held him 9 months and took care of him for anout 2 years.The Rosoul answered him and said:nope.This is just on the many,many things said.Also it is said that the Jannah is under your mother's foot/feet.Sorry i would like to write more but i got to go:D!!!!SALAM!

Anonymous said...

Kindness and respect towards our parents is very important. Our mother carried us for nine months (logically 10 months) and went through much of a painful time. After carring us, the had to birth us and after that, they breastfed us for 2 years. And to add on more responsiblity, they had to take care of us while we grew up, and when we were sick. Our fathers did a lot for us too. Islamically, they are to take care of us girls until we marry, and they do. They work very hard to get money to pay taxes, shopping bills, food , shelter, etc. According to a hadith, there was a man that came to Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) and asked: "Who are the best friends of me?" (men ahabo anas ely) Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) replied: "Your mother". "then who?" asked the man. "your mother" replied the Prophet Muhammed (PBUH). "then who" asked the man again. "your mother" replied the prophet mohammed (PBUH) for the third time. "then who" asked the man. "your father" replied Prophet Muhammed (PBUH). This hadith shows how important our mothers are to us. Allah orders us to obey our parents except in shirk. Disobeying our parents is the next worst thing next to shirk. That is why Allah mentioned it after the ayah about shirk. This shows the importance of parents. Without our parents, we would have never been alive now. In the quran it said"Wala takol lahoma offa"That maens don't say oof.Our parents love us very much and we should also love them the way they love us after all they did for us. Allah says that "Al-Jenneto tahata aqdam al-umhat" meaning that jennah is under the foot of our mothers. On the day of Judgement, all mankind will be under the boiling hot sun except those who are one of the seven people that go under the throne of Allah (SWT)and it's shade. Our parents love us very much and we should love them they way they loved us.

*please excuse the numberous amounts of mistakes and whereabouts!*

Ala'a Mostafa Tolba
MASQI summer school

Sister Ghazala said...

I am impressed by all the detailed discussions. Jazakallahul Khair.

Mariam Tolba said...

oh i'm just saying aslamu alkum and thanx 4 inviting abdo(Abdulrahman)you don't have to post this but make ure you read it!i've missed u soo much gotta go salam! :P :D :)

Sister Ghazala said...

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